Saturday, October 21, 2023

NO ONE DIES FOR OUR SINS

This whole thing of "Jesus dying for our sins" is ludicrous. If we aren't willing or even able to die for our own sins, how are we even able to learn anything about life, ourself, evolving as human beings? No one dies for my sins. I DON'T WANT anyone to be responsible for me anyway, as if even there could be such a thing. Are humans so weak, stupid, and inherently unable to account for themselves that they cannot even possibly know themselves enough to be actually responsible human beings?

Do "children of God" ever grow up? Ever become accountable for themselves? Even become real human beings? Or are we destined to be "children" forever, destined to be "sheep" of the herd forever? Look at the world, look at living in the world, look at history itself. How can any one even believe such absurdities? Us humans are already dying for our OWN sins. What we sow, we reap, even tenfold, a hundredfold. 

Perhaps I simply do not understand "forgiveness for our sins" or "dying for the sins of humanity." Perhaps any person who is killed because he or she does not seek retribution or revenge or even self-protection does in fact die for the "sins," that is, the ignorance of those with no awareness of who they are or what they doing in bodies on the earth. In that same respect, I also understand what "forgiveness of sins" actually means. To "turn the other cheek," as Jesus is supposed to have spoken, is, then, "to die for the sins (the ignorance) of humanity," and is, in that same respect, to "forgive" the same. And I see that to be able and willing to "turn the other cheek," to "die for the sins of the other," and to thus "forgive" such ignorance, may in fact "redeem one's own soul," for, in forgiving the other, one forgives oneself for one's own sins. Jesus and "God" have nothing to do with this; they are mere characters in the particular story imposed upon believers. For, again as Jesus is supposed to have said, "The kingdom of God is within." So one may in fact turn the other cheek and allow the ignorant one to harm or murder, but this does not allow the sinner to be free of the results of what has been done. Those who sin are still responsible for what they do. "Forgiveness does not let them off the hook." They must still learn to become responsible human beings, however long it may take them. They must still suffer until they learn to be responsible for themselves. To think that we can still behave in ignorance of ourselves because we are "forgiven," because "Jesus dies for our sins," is utterly ridiculous. 

I started this essay out on a superficial condemnation of such Christian notions as "forgiveness of sins" and Christ's "dying for our sins" and "redeeming" us, and, as I looked, I came into a deeper and truer understanding of what such what are now Christian cliches actually convey. The ignorant must suffer through life after life of their own karmic results until they learn how to stop making such karma/sin for themselves, and themselves learn and choose to "turn the other cheek." I see that Jesus did "die for our sins" because he did not seek either retribution or self-protection in spite of the fear for his life and for the impending pain and suffering that was to come to him because of his choice and because of the enmity and self-ignorance of other human beings. On the other hand, Jesus did NOT "die for your sins," but rather because he was aware of himself AS those others who killed him and had no true choice but to do it as he did.

Monday, May 23, 2022

OBFUSCATING

 Of late I read a good (?) portion of Wings of the Dove by Henry James. I found it to be a bit of a verbal vortex, leading further and further inward as well as spiraling outward and away. The closer I got to understanding anything, I started noticing that I was further away. At first I thought this might be some kind of use of irony and read along in that kind of mind, only to realize that it wasn't irony at all: it was purposeful obfuscation! Initially I liked the way it was written; it was somewhat similar to the way I think and even to the way I write at times. Then I began that James's writing was a literal avoidance of actually writing anything that might be understood. I came to see that whatever was "understood" would be of my own doing and not the author's. This had been my second attempt to "get into" Henry James's style and emplotment. I realized that his writing is a ploy to entrap and to otherwise trick his readers. In becoming aware of what seemed to me pure insincerity and nasty manipulation of his readers, I chose to no longer be one, and put the book in a box for Grey Bears, thinking nothing more of the book or its author. Then I happened to read Sexual Personae by Camille Paglia, who had pretty much the exact same take that I had of Henry James, which I found to be very perceptive coming for Paglia, for whom I have much respect for what I see as her deep insight into literature, art and the history of each. 

But I did notice how James seemingly sincerely prefers or perhaps needs to obfuscate, which is to say, avoids saying what is actually to be said, realizing that this is also very much my own "style," as it were. What comes to mind is Wittgenstein's statement in which he comments on his own book, noting that what is to be most understood is what he did not say, rather than what he did. For it is what we do not say, rather than what we do say, that is most telling and most true. Irony or paradox may have a place in such telling, though not necessarily at all. 

For many years I practiced Zen Buddhism, even to the point of being a Zen monk in a Zen monastery. I observed my own thinking closely for a good forty years and learned that it is what I don't say that has the most importance and reality to me, which is to say that my own conversation, as well as the thoughts that drive it, is primarily an obfuscation. So I found James to be intriguing in the sense of the seeming mystery he presented, until it became clear that it was avoidance and not really mystery that was involved. I realized that I too avoid and that, generally speaking, most "meaningful" speech is pure avoidance. Speaking may have nuance, but doing does not. Being, having no intention in itself, has no nuance. Nuance implies guessing. Action too, I realize, may be false, insincere, but only to a point. 

I have been quite concrete here, even focused, which is not usual for me. Usually I get quite relative rather quickly. For being of any particular mind instantly awakens its opposites, of which there are strangely a ricocheting myriad. I quickly choose sides by choosing none or by at least seeing all, which is never really the case anyway. I present endless considerations and even more questions, though acting without thought, perhaps on instinct, is another avenue for me.

What is called "Buddhist mind" can intervene for me, though I also question it as well. It moves from "self" to "no-self" to "no no-self," which can be seen as "Self," from a Jungian and other perspectives. Too much "no self" creates a "vanished self" which is too passive and, in my estimation, "lost" in our Western culture of "self." Still, I do value this "obfuscation" since it is closer to my own notion that I do not "know myself," since there is no "myself" as such to know. At best I may come to be somewhat familiar with a good number of "myselves." In most respects or perhaps in all, I am a figment of my own imagination. Are not we all such? So obfuscation may be our most pragmatic and wisest choice, though on the other hands, we may be destined to learn only from our mis-takes.

Wednesday, November 17, 2021

CERTAIN TRUTHS AND FALSE ASSUMPTIONS


 

I realized that I (and so many others) have been operating from a false assumption. Briefly, the false assumption is that one is “freed” from the “prison” of the body upon death, which has had the effect of “biding my time” until I do die and can then exist much more freely. This notion is patently false; one is freed from the physical body, yes, but the rest of the “bodies (or realms) of limitation,” including the soul itself remain thus “imprisoning” the spirit. Gnosticism holds that the spirit is held within the soul, and that, thus the soul too must become aware enough of the spirit within it, before the spirit can be freed. The framework of these different “enclosures” of the spirit, from a theosophical and gnostic view (with a few variations here and there) consist of the personality, which encompasses the mental apparatus (referred to as the “lower mental”), emotion (astral), and physical (body). There is also the “higher mind” which is in relationship with the individual soul, which becomes aware of the indwelling spirit, which is “divine,” “a spark of the Light of God,” as it were. But the soul itself has been affected by the material world even to the point of being damaged and with little memory of its indwelling spirit, which is “imprisoned” until the soul becomes aware and engages in its own purification and those of the personality. Just because one dies and seemingly is freed of the body, one is not freed of the bodies of the emotions, the mind, nor the soul (which still holds the spirit). Thus, one is “stuck” in the series of reincarnations until the soul evolves and frees the spirit. Then one returns as a Bodhisattva, to use the Buddhist term, or as some kind of Savior of Humanity, until the time when all humans are able to free the spirit within them, and thus have a “perfect world with perfect beings.”

 

If the above is true, there is only this moment in which to work and be on all the levels of being; the death of the body is not that “freeing moment” in which we “see God.” You either have that moment in this moment or you don’t. It’s all right now and not after you die. “Waiting until you die to be freed” is one horrendously false assumption.

Sunday, October 3, 2021

AN EXPLANATION OF SORTS

 

I practiced Buddhist meditation, primarily zazen, for forty years, and Theosophical meditation for almost twenty. I was raised and educated in Roman Catholicism. I have a PhD in Depth Psychology (Jungian). The result of all this is a kind of “zen mind,” which is not necessarily desirable in Western culture and society. This “zen mind” of mine is a strange one, for I also took a lot of LSD, which also turned out to be a strong spiritual path while it and I lasted. So there is a quite mystical, Jungian, Gnostic, Catholic aspect within me. These various backgrounds express themselves; I’m not so “zen” as I purport to be. In my living room is a Russian Orthodox icon of Jesus, to whom I have spoken (yes, prayed) many times and still do, though I claim to be a “non-believer”; my rational mind cannot conceive of believing, however, as a child, I believed. Catholicism is a mystical religion which relishes “mystery,” which is to say “not knowing.” It is quite Buddhist in that respect. I should note that I do not believe in Buddhism either; I have tasted too much of Krishnamurti in many respects. But, as exemplified in my previous posting to this blog, I do believe that there is power in Christianity and in prayer. It is the power of two thousand years of Christian belief in Christ, which has had the effect of creating something that has become actually real. I don’t believe it is mere coincidence or accident that my prayers “have been answered” numerous times over the years. I have seen results that would be called “miracles” and, to my mind, were miracles. Theosophists would say that such faith and belief over so long became thoughtforms that were literally brought to life. Almost in spite of my rational mind and even my zen non-belief in such things, I also hold true that that what happens is “meant to happen”; so that one may make choices and learn and evolve. My ultimate view is that “I” can both “contain” and “be” these seemingly contradicting forces and truths simultaneously. I don’t see it as one or the other but as both, or, in reality, as many. I have experienced and simply know too much to view it otherwise. This is not to boast. Sometimes one has not the choice to ignore, which is to say, be ignorant. And this is not to say that I do not know that I am ignorant. What I say here may sound like I am a very confused person, but in fact I’m not. In fact I make total sense. And I put this all in my blog here because it may serve the function of bringing clarity or even accuracy to someone, even if that someone be just me.

Saturday, October 2, 2021

FROM REAL BOY TO FLESH PUPPET: THE PINOCCHIO REVERSAL

 

I close my eyes and see great distances through time and space, as if I were traveling light years. It is an awareness in the moment which is seemingly not contained in time or space.

 

Quite suddenly, I had a "cosmic moment" this morning. In a particular moment I was absolutely aware that the whole universe was directly and completely expressing itself in that moment in that place and seeing it through my eyes and experiencing itself right there, as if all time and space were located exactly here and now. Afterwards I went for a walk up on a local mountain ridge and each person (other hikers) looked me in the eye and we "recognized each other" in "the cosmic realm."

 

There is nothing “to be done” with this: it is a multidimensional state. It is a “reminder” of such though. It does make a difference because it conveys truer perspective of “myself” and what that is and isn’t. I see “myself” as a kind of “lens” through which things are seen and perceived, even though the lens is really just a function of being. I don’t even know what that means though. It is like “simply appearing”; I am as an appearance that believes it is real, and, in that belief, it becomes real. Pinocchio in reverse, starting out as a “real boy” and then recognizing himself to be a flesh puppet. This recognition is only just “seeing the truth” of things.

 

I do sleep at night—with the proper sleep and pain meds—and I awaken to pain after a limited sleep. This would seem to be an impediment in my life. But it probably causes me to fall asleep in the afternoon or evening, and I have lucid dreams in which I am aware of where I am and what I am doing, at least somewhat. These are rather trippy, mystical dreams that provide “insights” or even experiences of different “dimensions” of existence. I some ways I believe that I am “led” in my life to become aware or conscious of various realities, which is to say that my pain and lack of sleep provide the opportunity for a new opening in which I see new vistas of being. I tend to see all of life in this mystical and magical way. This gives me an interest, curiosity, and fascination with “what happens.” I see that “what happens” in life can be horrendous, but that even that is “purposeful” and can be learned from. I may be quite fearful when death comes: after this last frightening MRI with its ear-shattering, chaotic, clashing sounds (which arise from the collision of magnetic fields bombarding and passing through one’s body), I had a sense that this is what might happen when one dies, which is frightening to me. But I would come to bear the unbearable since there is no other choice. It would have the effect of further unraveling that which I believe myself to be. I no longer “sit” in zazen (Buddhist meditation) but I find that I tend to naturally meditate, that such is often my natural state of mind (which does not mean that I am particularly equaniminous–in a state of equanimity–at all). I am perhaps in a state in which I am aware of how I feel, i.e. which emotions I am experiencing and maybe even their source in my thought or body, but such awareness/experience/attention does not dissipate anything necessarily. For instance, when I am in pain, I am definitely in fucking pain, for which I take half a Vicodin. I don’t believe that any purpose of meditation it to escape from whatever may be occurring.

Friday, September 24, 2021

The Dream of My Dreaming

 

The story continues (sorry for the typos; reading my own material for editing puts me literally to sleep, as I imagine you already know). Suffice it to say that “becoming a hippie” is a metaphor for opening one’s mind to “the unknown” and to discover life “as a strange trip.” I would add, “a most fascinating trip.” I ended up, after another forty years plus of Zen and Krishnamurti, as one who has had an adventurous, interesting story to tell, to remember. Actually, it’s still happening; it is still utterly strange and wonderful and horrendous. Living in a world run rampant with insanity is a challenge to sane people. I don’t believe it possible to “know thyself” since it is clear to me that “self” is a constantly changing, moving, ephemeral thing, if even that. So what I “do” is to see if I can come to terms with whatever it is I am seeing as “myself” in the moment and my “being in the world,” whatever I am seeing what “the world” is in any particular moment. I have become a bit of a reflection of light on an undulating wave upon the surface of a vast, endless ocean. As “a matter of fact,” I had an interesting dream a few months ago:
 
I awaken laying on the bottom of a small coracle (a round Welsh boat) floating upon a great placid sea. I should be uncomfortable but I am actually quite comfortable as I look up at the blue sky and gaze in the distance at the endless glistening waves. I just sit there placidly myself as the day passes. I have no thoughts but simply see what I see, as if I am the blue sky and the endless waves. As the sky darkens and the sun sets, I lay down and fall asleep. Then I dream I am being born as a tiny baby. I grow from baby to childhood to adulthood to old age and then death. And then I wake up in the warm sun as I lay on the bottom of a small coracle. Every day I float upon the sea and every night I fall asleep and dream again that I am born again. Every single night over endless time. And every dream is wonderful in its joy and utter sadness and profound drama. I see that this particular dream of all my dreaming is more than just a metaphor or a jumble of images in my brain.

Thursday, September 16, 2021

HOW I BECAME A HIPPIE ... AND OTHER THINGS

 

HOW I BECAME A HIPPIE: A CHILD OF THE SIXTIES … AND OTHER THINGS

While parked on West Cliff Drive today, I saw what might be described as “hippies” parked nearby in a beat-up old van with a sliding door. Two guys and a girl, probably in their early twenties, trying for the “60s hippie look” though not really hip enough, compared to how it once was. The guys had big hats and they all wore colorful, mismatching, though not raggedy clothes, nor were they particularly naked. The girl had a blond streak in her dark hair and was seriously reading a book. In their midst, sitting starkly on a bench was a large glass hookah. I had the urge to tell them stories of “how it was” but didn’t. I would’ve told them that fifty years ago the whole of West Cliff Drive would’ve been full of parked vans and buses with friendly hippies, in states of colorful, raggedy undress, and running naked down on the little and big beaches. There would have been people playing live music on acoustic instruments and drums, perhaps even a sitar or two, with dancing everywhere. And I would have told them that I appreciate that they are trying to emulate something that once expressed “freedom” as well as “youth.” I would also have asked them to tell me their stories of “how they became hippies.” I was once an absolute hippie in appearance and in lifestyle (though there were definitely different hippie lifestyles). Being able “to become a hippie” was a choice that I made wholeheartedly, though very few of my friends did. This is my story of “how I became a hippie,” and how I have been there the whole rest of my life.

 

It would be fascinating to interview thousands of “old hippies” and find out just how they got there, to what was called “the counterculture.” I was such a hippie by the time Woodstock happened, that I was just “too cool” to go (I lived rather close by in Ithaca) and mingle with “all the teenyboppers from Long Island.” As a “back-to-the lander” hippie, I eschewed such popular, “stoned-out spectacles,” preferring to follow my own band, NRBQ, and read Steward Brand’s Whole Earth Catalog, along with a little Nietzsche and Hesse, as well as Be Here Now. My hair was down to my waist and I kept writing materials stashed in my beard. New York State troopers, profiling “hippie druggies” stopped me several times, but neither my wife nor I took any drugs, not even marijuana. We lived in the mountains outside of Ithaca, using oil lamps and hurricane candles, cooked over a fire outside, even in winter, and heated with a woodstove. We were Montessori teachers and then I worked for Tompkins County CPS (Child Protective Services).

               But I have rather plunged into the middle of a story that I believe should be told “from the beginning.” I suppose it would “make more sense” that way. One of the primary reasons I am writing this is so that my life actually might make some sense to me. But for me, and I’m sure many others, “becoming a hippie” was a choice to “not make sense.”

               The great majority of my friends, of whom I actually had two, though I had numerous high school classmates, did not become hippies, but more or less followed in the footsteps of their parents in Albany, New York. I was rather different than the “normal” kids for a number of reasons, as I see it. One reason, that has very recently dawned on me, is that my parents were “mixed,” somewhat racially and definitely culturally. My sense of it is that when people marry (or link up, as it were) with different kind of people, the children may actually “mutate” and bring out the best qualities of each different “side.” My “Italian” father (who was descended from Norman, that is, French descendants of earlier Vikings, Sicilians) was stationed in Paris, Texas early in WWII, where he met my mother, the youngest of eleven children, descendants of Scots-Irish and Native American (Cherokee-Choctaw) blood. Not only racially but also quite different culturally, my mother had an “indigenous,” if you will, perspective on life, quite different from my father’s traditional Italian way of seeing things. Her grandfather had also been a Choctaw medicine man, for whatever that’s worth.

               There is also the fact that I was born six-weeks premature and then kept in incubation, in the same kind of box with a lightbulb that incubates chicken eggs, and without bonding human contact for at least six weeks, which seemingly had the effect of both delaying my development and creating autistic-like symptoms, which my father read as defiance, which led to his abusive treatment or avoidance of me, though much of my childhood.

               At age seven we moved into a house in which a man had committed suicide less than a year prior to our moving in. He had hung himself in what was now my bedroom. And he initially appeared quite visually in front of me, totally freaking me out, and then toning his visits down to a ghost-like appearance. We commiserated rather frequently for more than a year and I was quite aware of his situation “on the other side.”

               These influences on my early life certainly provided me with a predilection to view life from quite different perspectives even as a very young child. My father was an enigma to me: I did know he loved me but he was also quite physically abusive. I became aware that when he was being abusive, he wasn’t “in this right mind”; I could literally see his thoughts and that he was on the beach (Normandy) in the midst of battle or trapped in a house serving as a field hospital (he was a medic) in a forest (Belgium in the Battle of the Bulge). I was seeing into his thoughts in his PTSD episode.

And he was a very well-respected pillar of the community and looked up to by family and friends. Thus, I was quite able to see through the false social veneer at a very young age. I think those with similar sight were prime candidates to become a part of the counterculture.

               But by the time I was in late-grade school and then high school, I had become quite able to socialize; people liked me and I enjoyed socializing. I had learned to enter into this world well enough. I had good looks and was popular enough to become Vice-President of my senior class (of which the President always had to be a “jock,” which I wasn’t). I went to a Catholic high school with Irish, German, Italian, Polish Catholics and was taught by a Catholic male teaching order, many of whom preferred corporal punishment as well as boys. I was not interested in school and was quite mediocre, though I avidly read all sorts of science fiction. A girl, older than me, from a “high-class” school in a well-to-do area outside of Albany saw me from her school bus and pursued me. As my first real girlfriend (since I was finally ready for such a thing), she was very adventuresome and actually wild. She was absolutely open to sex, telling me that she was not a virgin because she had stepped out of a rowboat and had been impaled by an oar, which sounded totally reasonable to me. She was a parachutist and would also jump upon the railing of a bridge a hundred feet off the ground and gleefully, nonchalantly walk along from there. She brought me into an old cemetery and just as nonchalantly walked into an open mausoleum and pulled open a drawer with a skeleton. She also brought me spelunking into a deep cave (Haile’s Cave, in the Heldebergs) which was full of bats and often flooded, turning off the flashlight and sitting in absolute dark silence for long periods. She ironed her long dark hair so that it would be flat and shiny. In the early sixties, she was what I saw as “kind of a beatnik,” wearing black and black mascara (which later was called “Goth”). Her older brother was a beatnik who did drugs. She invited me to go with her to Bob Dylan’s house over in Stockbridge (MA) a number of times, but I was such a dumbass, all I could say was, “I’m not goin’ to no beatnik fag’s house.” I could have stepped directly into the highest of hippiedom but I was still too much of a "greaser" and had to wait a few more years. She also brought me to Lake George to hang with the Hell’s Angels when they rioted and took over the town until the New York State Troopers invaded in full force. She opened my mind to “the unknown” and made it an utterly interesting adventure.

               About this same time, perhaps as a result of my science fiction reading, which had led me to study astrology and the “occult,” I became a member of the AMORC (Rosicrucian Order) and began “esoteric” experiments like using my “mental powers” to cause a candle flame to waver, increase, decrease, or even go out. I did this in my bedroom. Once my mother poked her head in the doorway and commented that she used to do that same kind of thing with her grandfather when she was very young. (She also told me the story of how Bonnie and Clyde came to her house in the country when she was five or six and gave her mother a dollar to spend the night in their car in the barn; they were done in two weeks later.)

               In my first year in college, when I was in Fenwick, one of the men’s dorms, I actually performed a “black mass” in my dorm room in order to “conjure up a demon.” I studied up on such in the BC library that actually had an archive with original books on spells and such dating from the Puritan era and the Salem witch trials. I had a work-study job at the library and had access to the archives. Then I went to a “witch’s bookstore/center” in Boston, called, interestingly enough, The Coven, where they lent me a “proper black mass crucifix” (which must have been “desanctified”), a book on conducting such, with instructions on drawing a pentacle, the proper kind of chalk, and selling me a gigantic black candle. I went through the process, the room became dark and smoky, my roommate freaked out, I stepped out of the pentacle, and was punched in the face by what appeared to be a cat-like human face with red eyes with an iron fist, seriously bruising my jawbone. My roommate had already fled the room. After this, I was thrown out of the dorms and had to find another place to live.

               When I went to The Coven, the older crones there sent a younger woman, Cassandra, to work with me in my black mass endeavor. We became friends and she invited me to her house, which was more of a “compound,” in Charlestown, an old part of Boston. The house was ancient, built in the 1600s. She told me that her direct descendants were two witches who were hung in Salem in 1692 and that being a witch with certain powers was “something inherited.” She was literally bewitching. She introduced me to the I Ching and showed me how to use it. We talked about the war in Vietnam and I told her that I was not one who would kill people. I hadn’t thought much about the draft (to which I would soon be subject) and, using the I Ching, she said that for me to participate in the war, killing or not, would “destroy my soul,” and that I would, risking prison, not go.

               While in college I began participating with the SDS on the BC campus and eventually parading with the anti-war groups in Boston, particularly on Boston Common where we were attacked by baton-swinging police on horses. We carried North Vietnamese flags and chanted “Ho Chi Minh.” It was quite exciting and led me to question “Amerikan” (as we spelled it at the time) society at the time. Many of the people I paraded with were Marxists and carried Mao’s Little Red Book (of which I still have my copy).

               But I was not yet a hippie. I had longish hair and a big mustache and LSD posters on my bedroom walls and wore bell-bottoms and flopped, lacy shirts and Edwardian double-breasted suits to class, but “weed” just made me very spacy and put me to sleep. Then I had a series of seven dreams on seven nights in a row. In these dreams I was underneath a heavy wooden door with a small square grating through which I could see. I was in a pit like a grave and people dressed in 18th century Irish garb were throwing rocks down on the door, crushing me. (The one man, Giles Corey, killed in the Salem witch trials as a “witch/wizard” was “pressed to death” in a similar manner in 1692.) In each progressive dream, I see a red-haired woman standing on the edge of the pit and sternly looking down at me with a slight smile, as if it’s all a joke. In the final dream, I see a small gravestone with a name and the year 1728. Back in the modern moment, I am leaving my apartment and the person who moved in below my apartment a week earlier is coming in the front door. I recognize her as the same red-haired woman who was in my dream! But all I can do is just gape at her; it’s just too mind-blowing for me to comprehend. And then she smiles at me and says, “It’s been a long time, Seamus.” Seamus, the name on the gravestone! She and I become the best of friends, spending at least a year in almost daily discussion and smoking dope and listening to “acid music” and working on the Ouija Board, and amazing each other with what we know. In this time she chewed up so many men but she never chewed me up. We went out dancing all the time and she was this Twiggy-style model who was most sexy but I resisted because I absolutely knew her ferocious power. She was too sophisticated, cosmopolitan, and intelligent to be “hippified,” or labeled in that way. She was wild in her mind and taught me how to be wild in your mind, how to be without boundaries in your mind. We still talk every two weeks, over fifty years later. And she is still a witch.

I am attending a music festival in the wheat fields of Sussex, England, with a British friend I met on a train. Timothy is the lead guitarist for Marianne Faithful, Mick Jagger’s girlfriend. We jammed (me playing a pretty decent “harp”) and he invited to his home in St. John’s Wood in London. At the festival, thousands of young people are pushing and straining at the gate as it opens. It is a large meadow surrounded by a high wire fence with uniformed security guards located along the fence and high towers with spotlights. It is dusk, the gate is now opening and the crowd is pressing forward. Suddenly the blinding floodlights on the towers shine upon the crowd, moving over the crowd. When the light hits me, I freeze in terror, as if I am going to die in that moment. Through the dust cloud enveloping me, I see people with shaved heads, wearing rags, some with yellow and black stripes all around me. My stomach is sucked in; I am ravenous with hunger. I am afraid and confused. Then, just as suddenly, I am back in the crowd of young people at the festival. This experience happens one more time when the spotlight shines on me again. This time I realize that I have had a flashback to a past life as a Jew in a concentration camp. More reveals itself to me in due time.

After this, I lived in Amsterdam in the Netherlands with a Dutch woman I “saved” from some predatory American boys at the Van Gogh Museum. Amsterdam in 1969 was the hippie paradise of the world, full of hippies from everywhere in the world, all smoking dope—except me. I was entranced by the magical kingdom around me and was beginning to look the part, but, as always, I was a bit aloof. After being there a while, I abruptly left, leaving my ersatz lovely girlfriend, Derusha, with only a copy of The Prophet. I really didn’t quite know “what to do with people,” and found myself identifying too closely with Harry Haller in Hesse’s novel, Steppenwolf. I had discovered the “lost” element of being a hippie.

               By now I had been exposed to aspects of “the unknown,” and I found it to be quite attractive to my nature; I wanted to know more and see more, yet my proclivity was to be isolated and reclusive. I wanted to be able to “see into myself” and “know who I am.” And I had a strong aversion to “authority” and considered myself to be “antiauthority,” though not particularly rebellious or defiant. I did not want to be involved in fighting in Vietnam. I believed that I had no right to kill anyone, especially someone in Vietnam. I thought that I might have willingly fought in WWII, or to defend people I loved, but I had experienced aspects of “the other side,” and now had had more “experienced moments” of a “past life,” and had studied and meditated upon the notion of “the soul being reborn in many lifetimes of many people.” I didn’t know if I believed it or how to contextualize it for myself, but I did know that I did not want to be killing others or supporting others in this. I am aware that I was very naïve, in regards to what happens in the actions of the U.S. in the world, but I still realized that I had to “do something.” In due time, I began to participate in the Friends Service Committee and attending weekly “peace vigils” (in which people threw things at our group, once hitting a girl in the head and knocking her out). I wrote to President Nixon and the IRS, telling them I would no longer pay “war taxes.” I marched more seriously against the war now. I applied for Conscientious Objector status so that, rather than participating in fighting in Vietnam for two years, I could do “civilian service.” I had to gather evidence of my beliefs against killing, which was rather difficult. Mostly I had to “think and articulate” my thoughts. I used my Catholic education (God forbid) and compiled lots of Bible quotes, which gave the appearance that I was actually religious. In fact, the last time I had gone to church which was with my parents and sister at Easter Mass, the Bishop stood in the pulpit and announced to the congregation that the Catholic Church supported the war in Vietnam against the “godless Communists” and that Catholic men (read “boys”) could be soldiers (read “and kill”). My reaction was to stand up and walk out, apparently saying “fuck this” on my way out, as my chagrined and embarrassed parents told me. The Albany Draft Board, consisting of seven men of my father’s age, every single one of whom had been able to avoid the WWII draft, granted one out of eight applicants who sought Conscientious Objector status, with the other seven going to prison for two years. I thought, “Well, if my CO status is not granted, I can go to prison and meditate and read like Gandhi did in prison.” Until I met a Quaker guy who told me he was raped every single day for two years when he went to prison.

               The day arrived when I had to present my case for Conscientious Objection to the Draft Board. My long hair was sprayed and plastered down under my collar of the white shirt with the tie and suit jacket I wore. I was not prepared to submit or be a paradigm of sweetness to these cowards. They had in fact invited, illegally, an Army recruiter, Sargent O’Day, to my defense. When they introduced him, I said, “I refuse to acknowledge your military title and will address you as Mr. O’Day.” And when they started calling me a “coward” as well as “unchristian,” I told them that my father had a Bronze Cross for his heroic efforts in WWII (which he did) and that they should be ashamed of themselves for “chickening out,” and reread letters from priests saying how “devout” a Catholic I am (which was total bullshit) and quoted all sorts of non-killing quotes by Jesus, I think my insane righteousness and utter contempt for them may have somehow shamed them. Or else the fact that my father would publicly embarrass them for their cowardliness (which he actually did at the Draft Board as he stood on a desk and absolutely lambasted them later in the day in front of all the secretaries and staff that worked in the building, after I told him what they had said to me.

               Taking the stand as a Conscientious Objector and risking going to jail did change my life. I had gone against the current. I knew people who had escaped the draft by moving to Canada (which was pretty close to Albany, New York), and perhaps that would have been a good choice, but I was proud of myself and how I successfully stood up against “the man,” making myself into a “man” in my own eyes, and my father’s too. My mother, being a “Southern girl” could never wrap her mind around what I did. The guys in my high school had bragged about how they would “go to Vietnam and shoot some gooks”; a few of them never came back. I was absolutely antimilitary. When I was “serving” my two years at a “residential institution for emotionally-disturbed children” (along with my faithful wife who also ended up working there), the FBI knocked at our door with drawn weapons and told us we had committed a Federal offense by not paying our income taxes, and that unless we paid “right now,” they would put us in handcuffs and haul us off to jail. I was almost interested in taking them up on their threats but I did not want to inflict such on my wife, who was terrified. I was still such a punk that I wrote a check to the IRS for $236 (including penalties and fines) and drew a picture of hand with the middle finger sticking up right on the back of the check, though it was quite small and they didn’t notice it.

               At this point I have not “mellowed”; I am more of a “yippie” (see Abby Hoffman) than a hippie. Hippies are definitely mellower. That is yet to come. There are still stories to tell that comprise an amazing lead-up.

               We are living near Millbrook, New York. Several years earlier (1967ish), Timothy Leary, living on the Hitchcock Estate, was raided several times by the New York State Troopers. The estate was a center for LSD research and also a residence for 29 adults and 10 children at the last time it was raided and shut down. I had heard that it had been finally shut down because local teens had become involved in taking LSD there. When my wife and I snuck into the gatehouse which consisted of a large room over the arched stone entrance, the whole area had become very overgrown with jungle-like foliage and was still guarded by State Troopers, some with rifles, around all the buildings. We first fought through the vines which now occupied what had been a garden with all kinds of statues. We uncovered large statues (six feet or so) of Alice in Wonderland, the Rabbit, the Mad Hatter, as well as unicorns, turtles, and other mythological creatures. The entrance to the gateway was guarded so we struggled through the bushes and climbed in a window that opened onto the spiral staircase leading up the room where Leary lived. It was a beautiful room with many small windows, built-in bookcases, and even a built-in bed frame. The room was empty and clean except for one thing: in the center of the room was a size 14 brown leather wing-tip shoe with the tongue out and no shoe laces.

I am working at an old institution, established in Victorian times. It had initially been an Episcopalian orphanage. It had been hit by a cholera or smallpox plague that killed almost all the adults and children. The atmosphere of the institution, which was composed of many “cottages” with up to twelve children, was scattered over many acres in a birch and pine forest. I noticed that when I went outside at night, I felt oppressed, even assaulted, by the darkness, as if something was literally grabbing at my clothes and even shoving me. In fact it was frightening but I didn’t know what it was. My wife actually saw figures in the dark and avoided going outside at night. For a number of years I had been studying the occult as well as Hindu philosophy and teachings. I had read that “ghosts” live on the “astral (or emotional)” level and were attracted to people whose consciousness was astral in nature. Interestingly, at that same time, I started meditating with a Theosophical group, and was able to “elevate” myself to a “mental” level and thus was able to develop a kind of “immunity” to the ghosts, or so I thought. Then a number of events occurred that were very disturbing. First, in broad daylight, I noticed approximately twenty people dressed in black Victorian Episcopalian clothing standing at the edge of a meadow in the dark shade of the forest. Then, one night our little apartment became very cold with an inky smoke and my wife and I were visited by some very malevolent ghosts, who I could not only feel but who materialized right in front of us. We were terrified and had no idea what to do. Eventually they left. About this same time, the young boys in my cottage were also being assaulted by the ghosts, who came to their beds at night and pinched them as they materialized in front of them. The boys would come to my room crying and terrified. My meditation had worked but only a bit. I kept lights on for the kids and we decided that we would “pray to Jesus” to protect us and make the ghosts go away. I told them to tell the ghosts, “In the name of Jesus Christ, leave here and move on.” We practiced over and over until they felt that they could follow through with it, even if they were afraid. They were angry about what the ghosts were doing as well. They called on Jesus to “stand with them,” told the ghosts where to go, and it worked. None of us ever saw or felt another ghost around us again.

               One of my great concerns at the institution was the treatment of the children by their child care workers/house parents. Some of these people were totally unqualified to be caring for children and were physically abusive. I was appalled and wanted to find some way to educate these people in proper child care. The institution was non-union and I believed that if they were unionized they could be properly educated through the union. I research training provided by unions and found that the AFL-CIO would be a good candidate. So I contacted them in New York City and they assured me that they do and would provide such training. I went to meet them secretly and found myself, a quite hippie-looking man with long hair down to his waist and a big bushy reddish beard, sitting at one end of a long oval table. At the other end was a short Italian man literally in a tight-fitting sharkskin suit (who had to be Joe Pesci in another life), with two guys in black suits on either side, wearing white shirts and stylish ties, packing a gun in a shoulder holster. This was like the Mob. At this point he told me what I had to do: I had to organize the house parents in secret and get them to join the union by having them literally sign on the dotted line. If I didn’t do this, he would “send his associates to further advise me.” My heart was in my throat and I had to agree. So I went back and made the rounds among the house parents, a number of whom I discovered were actually German refugees from post-WWII (ex-Nazis). Two other Conscientious Objectors joined me.

Now the story gets particularly weird and then tragic. One of these workers was a follower of Eckankar and claimed to be experienced in “astral travel,” which is kind of like Harry Potter’s “cloak of invisibility” or of being like a ghost. He knew from his girlfriend, who was the private secretary of the CEO of the institution, that the CEO was embezzling funds from the institution, and decided that he would “astral travel” to the CEO’s home on the institution grounds to see what he could find. He asked my wife and to come with him. We had never done this and didn’t think we could, but he said it was easy and to let him guide us, which we did. We moved in our “astral bodies,” which was like not being in the physical body but, rather, being a kind of ghost, in which you are able to “move” and to “see” as you move. We moved though physical obstacles like walls and doors, and could see the rooms in the house as if we were looking through clouds; everything was rather grayish and out of focus. We found nothing in particular but both my wife and I remembered seeing the exact same things and layout of the house. I’ve done this a few times over the years but it’s so strange and dream-like that it’s hard to believe.

The administration of the institution found out our “secret plan” and the institution policeman, who was an ex-cop and did wear a pistol and had a rifle in his truck, did his best to follow us at night. We had to hide fast and then desisted from our attempts to talk to house parents (which probably informed the administration in the first place). I received some intimidating calls from the AFL-CIO guy but, in fact, the campus of the institution was actually guarded, especially at night, by armed officers, both to keep people out and to keep the residents, some of whom were older teens and sought to escape, in. And one night, one of the guys I was working with in the union-organizing was killed in a car accident; it was discovered that his brake line had been cut.

As a house parent, I worked with a group of 12 young boys, aged from 4 to 10, in a cottage setting. Most of the kids were from Harlem and had been removed from their homes for their own safety, due to drug use and to drug-related crimes, or negligence or abandonment. There was an on-campus school with young, inexperienced, white teachers. My kids went to school and were both “uncooperative” and “out of control.” My own belief was that had they been white, such a “problem” would not have arisen. So the psychologists and doctors in the administration prescribed Ritalin for every single kid, which I was to administer to them. After the first day, they came home like zombies and went to sleep. Then the weekend came and the next morning we had a meeting in which we made a deal. I told them that if they cooperated in school and behaved properly that I would give them treats (like ice cream or hot dogs or no vegetables or pizza) every day and that they would be able to stay up late on weekends and watch Creature Features and have banana splits and popcorn and the like. So the deal was struck: they behaved, the teachers and psychiatrists and doctors were quite self-congratulating, and I flushed the Ritalin down the toilet every day for almost two years. After my friend was killed, my time was almost up and one Thursday morning I told them, right after they had once again congratulated themselves, that the boys hadn’t taken any Ritalin but had decided to improve their own behavior. I was immediately threatened with arrest and then reminded them that they might not want to go this route since I could just notify the local press about what they had done (and were doing in other cottages with other children). So they merely fired me (and my wife) and sent us packing.

While at the children’s institution near Millbrook, I had begun participating in a California-based Theosophical group that followed the teachings of Alice Bailey, a more or less “renegade” Theosophist. The group meditated on “the soul level” and studied the teachings of the “Hierarchy” and Djwal Kuhl as “consciously channeled” by Bailey in the 1920s. I was totally up for it and everything resonated with me. Theosophy, started by Helena Blavatsky in the 1880s was a mixture of Hinduism and Buddhism, and what was called “esoteric Christianity”; it had a definite air of Jungianism. It also spoke of a “World Avatar” who was expected any time (since its prepared Avatar, Krishnamurti, had left it at the altar). I had a mentor who led me to believe that I might be that “World Savior”—which was quite problematic to a young man who had just married a beautiful Welsh woman who wanted to have children. A part of the Theosophical teaching was celibacy, and since I was planning on being the World Avatar, I believed it to be expedient to go that way. We had a little house in the mountains outside of Ithaca and I slept literally on the mountaintop I owned up in back of our abode. And then I was “moved” to leave on what turned out to be a six-week “soul searching” journey alone. This was not a good move. When I returned my wife ended our relationship and happened to have another man living at my house. I honored her wishes (still in my pride and self-deception) and I was devastated. No longer believing I was the Avatar, I still “kept to the path,” though in deep depression. This “back to the lander” was now alone with the land.

In those days, when a young person ran up against what I now had to face, there was only one alternative: go to California. I went to live in a “growth center/commune” in Berkeley, called the Living Love Center, led by Ken Keyes, author of The Handbook of Higher Consciousness, among others. I learned and experienced every New Age thing there was to learn or experience. Eight hours a day I was taught everything there was to know that was occult or yogic or psychological or magic or artistic. It was far and above Esalen at the time, attended by the Silicon Valley wizards, the Manson crazies, Buddhist teachers, Indigenous shamans, yogis, pre-Scientologists, Silva Mind Control, and then LSD. I went from being a “back to the lander hippie” to being a truly Californian “trippy hippie.” I watched all my chakras open to the very ends of the universe and beyond, watched and heard the earth breathe, saw everything turn into pure atomic energy as it pulsed and throbbed, made the clouds move and the sun shine, walking Telegraph Ave and the UC-Berkeley campus accompanied by either Pan or Mephistopheles. Then, after too long a time taking purple microdot, I stopped eating, lost eighty pounds, started seizuring, and stopped cold turkey. Then, after stealing Ken’s girlfriend, Nicole, I was ejected from the Living Love Center, eventually ending up living with a woman artist on Masonic and Asbury in SF.

Now I was a full-fledged hippie and was supposed to be enjoying it. There was a difference between “East Coast hippies” and “California hippies”; the East Coast people were far more intellectual whereas the California people were more hedonist. In Berkeley I had begun to “sit,” that is, to practice Buddhist meditation, at Dharmadhatu, Chogyam Trunga’s group, a strange bunch that smoked and drank, just like him. And then somebody took me down to the Tassajara Zen Center in Carmel Valley, behind Big Sur, and I liked that. These people were clean and bald and quiet and tranquil, or so it seemed in comparison to myself. My “out of this world” experiences were becoming much rarer. Then along came est and Werner Erhard. For me, this took the cake. I not only “got enlightened,” the women lined up at my door, so to speak. I got all cleaned up and discovered that you didn’t need to be a hippie to have “free love” (though it was much the same in my college years, to be honest). One just had to be “present” and “forthright” and so I learned well how to be a “sensitive male” and perhaps even was somewhat. But in working at the est Center in SF, I discovered the emotional and physical abuse that was glorified as “honesty” and exited as quickly as I could, moving back to Berkeley, where I was literally pursued and harassed by est, as if I could not be allowed to leave the cult. But, matching nastiness with nastiness, they finally laid off me. However, that said, I had learned how to “be in the world” and play that game properly, thanks to est. It was Werner who said, “Understanding is the booby prize.” Such a trickster, Jack Rosenberg, like the the rabbit in the briar patch. I understand and appreciate hard lessons.

 

I had changed. I no longer looked like a hippie. I realized at this point that “being a hippie” was more truly a state of mind, a worldview. On my “honeymoon” in Colorado and New Mexico with my new wife, we got into a heated argument in Manitou Springs, and I, as I had done once before to “gather my wits, took off into what was literally the wild blue yonder. I ended up becoming a monk at the Bodhi Om Mandala Zen Monastery in Jemez Springs, New Mexico. They shaved my head and I sat in my black kashaya robe for four hours at a time in the outside zendo built over the mountain stream that ran down to the desert below. I learned to cover my bare feet so that the tarantula-like spiders would no longer creep out from under the floor to bite my toes. It was a most solitary Zen sangha; the monks were silent and kept to themselves. I “sat” for eight hours a day all tolled and worked at the monastery most cleaning. Only once was I sharply and loudly stuck upon my shoulders by the jiki-jitsu with the long hard keisaku, which had the effect of altering my state of consciousness, not unlike the effects of peyote, which heightens the senses and instinct, creating an intense state of awareness of and connection with the natural world, as if one was a rabbit. One day, during kyogyo, the walking meditation, in which we walked in single file following the jiki out on the pavement in front of the monastery, some local yahoos stopped in their pick-up truck, climbed in the back, and started laughing and throwing empty beer cans at us. In a split second, the jiki, with fourteen of us black-robed monks walking as one unit, within inches of each other, turned on a dime directly facing the locals and began speeding towards them. In a nanosecond, their eyes bugged out of their heads and they zoomed off, never to return. Weeks flew by, summer became fall, but no rain so close to the desert. I had become a bona fide Zen monk. There was a natural hot springs at the monastery. Every evening, all the monks and nuns met there, stripped naked, and bathed absolutely silently in the springs, watching the black sparkling dome above us. In time, I got food poisoning and was extremely sick and weak. After a few days, no one even noticed or did anything to help me; I left in the middle of the night and drove back to California where my wife was waiting for me at a Hindu ashram, Kayavorohana, (where we had been married) outside of St. Helena in the Napa Valley.